Saturday, September 5, 2015

Rules


In this society, we have been govern by a lot of rules and regulations, because this is what makes us a better person.
Rules is the only thing that keeps us in line, keeps us good.
It is also the only thing that is making us different from one another, because we are controlled by different rules.
Sometimes when they are controlled by rules, if the person obeys the rules then they are good people, and those that did not follow are showing bad results.
To me, rules are important and we need to follow them, but actually I don't feel as it is something necessary, because it causes the reverse effect for most of the time.
What do I mean by that?
Well, rules make us better humans, because without rules we are no different than animals right? Don't want to make it as if its a joke, because with or without rules, human are different (Obviously!)
So why do we need rules?

First, is for the authorities to control us. To make it simple, in a family, our parents set rules, and we must follow those rules, if not we are considered as a bad child.
For example, rule is set to study at 5pm in the evening, so you study during that time. But I want to study at night, so I did not follow the rule and my parents think I did not study. This is really bad for the child actually, why? Well, everyone has their own way of studying, so what if they enjoy to study at night when its quiet and cold, does this mean because they did not study during 5 they are wrong?
Here is the side effect of having rules and forcing people to follow them without them willing to. A child has passion to study at night, but being forced to study in the evening will only cause them to actually lost passion in studying and patience towards the family will also be affected.
Besides being in a family, a lot are also being monitored by their schools or work force, this is to make sure that everyone is doing a good job. Yes, but actually it is causing bad effects as well, especially in schools.
Because a lot of young teens are really rebel during this period, so they tend to do what is said forbidden.
Okay, this is the part where I argue my own statement, because in this society, rules are actually important, to keep us from being bad, or at least doing bad stuff. But to the children, they are suppose to get these education from home, right? Why see it as if schools are the only place for that? As a parent what should and should not be done so just past that knowledge on and on and on.

Rules are needed to make a country, a society.
But it is not made to control, or even worst to force people.
Rules are being misuse by the people nowadays, that is why more and more cases are popping up and more of them are cases done by teens or young adults.
Like what we say, whenever someone say no too frequently about the same thing, they will get fed up and they will then be rebellion and start to plan some 'evil scheme' to 'get back' to their parents or the ones that issue those rules.
Rules need to be used with a bright and clear mind. So they know how to make a better person by then choosing to be 'controlled' rather than forced to be controlled.

Rules are made to differentiate us, so just make good use of it all our special and different personalities will appear and the easier it is to get along with the people in the world.
Because rules help us acknowledge as well.


Written On

5 September 2015


APA Referencing

Merhar, C. (2014, April 2). Small Business Employee Benefits and HR Blog. Image Retrieved from Zane Benefits: http://www.zanebenefits.com/blog/fsa-balance-rollover-hsa-contribution-rules 

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